In general, too many people nowadays believe that true love is the love that requires a sacrifice and hurts. It’s not like that – love isn’t supposed to cause tears and pain. Love shouldn’t make you suffer no matter what you see in the movies or read about in magazines. True love is healing and liberating, and yes, it does exist.
Stop believing the media that love is supposed to hurt. It shouldn’t hurt at all. Love is about finding your soulmate and a person that’s worth it. You need to find a person who puts an effort into proving his love to you – until you find him/her, you can stay alone.
Don’t worry about the social stigma – staying alone until you find the right person is a great strategy that will protect your love and emotions. Don’t just give yourself away to the next person that walks into your life – it can have horrible consequences.
Instead of having your heart shattered, just stay alone. There’s nothing wrong with it – just ignore what others say. Staying alone doesn’t make you anti-social or a lone wolf – you’re just waiting for someone who will do anything to make your relationship work. In the meantime, you’ll have plenty of time to chase your goals and dreams without anyone holding you back.
You deserve to have someone in your life who tries hard to make things work. Someone that sees you for who you are. Someone who makes plans with you, not alone. You deserve someone who loves the real you and someone who treats you like his queen. By not just falling into the arms of just about anyone, you will meet a person who will focus on your wants and needs and include you in his plans for the future. You’ll find someone who cares about every little detail and who’ll be there to catch you when you fall.
Make no mistake about it – that person exists. They’re out there waiting for you just like you’re waiting for them. The Universe will bring you together in the right place at the right time – you just have to believe that it will happen. Until then, you’re free to stay alone and enjoy life.